Saturday 13 December 2014

It's Simple. DON'T Complicate!

What do you prefer, tangled earphones or the untangled one? What do you prefer, a Highway where your car would move swiftly or a congested road having traffic jam? What do you prefer, a life of a simple person who is not afraid of anything or a life of a terrorist who can't sleep each night afraid of being caught?

I guess and I hope the answer to all the questions would be the simpler one. Well, the same is with Life. Life, what do you know about it? If you ask me, no one knows anything about it! If anyone could answer about the real meaning of life, that is their perception of it. Some believe to live a normal life, being satisfied with what they have. Some believe to climb up the stairs at every possible moment. Most of the human population are of the 2nd kind but after a certain period of time, most of them become the 1st kind. That's how the circle of life works.

So, the point is, no one knows what exactly life is. I have heard that when you realize the meaning of your life, then your life becomes worth living. I say, who is there to judge us? I can work hard and achieve a lot of success in my life or at the same time, I can be idle and do nothing. Money is not much of a problem, you can actually earn the money anyhow which would cover your basic necessity.

So, as everyone have their own perception of life, I have my own. Life is something which should be kept simple. By simple I don't mean problem free life. No! Whatever you will do, you will definitely face some kind of problem. What I mean is, there is no one to judge you, no one. You are the only judge of your life. So, why can't we keep it simple? Why can't we be away from the complicated part? Well, already you have so many problems, why do you complicate life?

For example, if a mother strongly emphasize not to do that particular thing and that might be catastrophic, then why should the son do that? He shouldn't, he shouldn't complicate the whole scene. For example, if someone is married and wife tells her husband not to do that particular thing, then what is the need to do it? I'm not talking about the restrictions, I'm talking about complicating the things.

Unfortunately, we humans are in a tendency to complicate everything we have got and then blame either to God or others. We would whine for the next many years but won't simplify it. If you had a very strong friendship and which is broken now, the only possible explanation is that the things became complicated. Well, just like the earphones are untangled and used again, the same could be done with broken friendships or any other relation with anyone. We, humans search for new people and just leave behind the old ones. Then we should also buy new earphones every time they become tangled.

Well, easier said than done, but that's the story of every Human Being and that includes me as well. The whole point of this post was, life is simple, pretty simple. The only complicated thing in our whole lifetime was the way we were born and that was the time when we cried without reason. Life is simple, if you manage it very well. There is a difference between problem and complication. Problem arises because of each and every complication which was done before and it evolved over the time and came in-front of us as a problem.

I am not saying to live your life the way you started it. I am not saying not to hope and not to aim for more. But, everything can be done if you follow a simple path, then your hope and aim would definitely be fruitful, not today but definitely tomorrow.

Everyone has a complicated life, not a problematic one and that's the reason we do not tend to enjoy it or smile about it or be happy about it. A person can only smile or laugh if he would have a simpler situation. So, try to keep everything simple, life is not about ego, it is not about proving others wrong. Life was meant to be simple and to keep it simple.